Very often get asked “how did you make it?” referring to various successful miles stones reached and many more setbacks hurdled over during my life; the answer is simple: By uberpositive mindset; by visualisation of what lies ahead will be “amazing and rewarding because at the moment things are not easy”. When I am experience negative vibes and huge obstacles,: I never stop and think; “oh I can’t do this”, Never! It is exhilarating to LIVE and LOVE. Taking risks and trying new ways/things/learning EVERY DAY..Opportunities present themselves to us on a daily basis: Mainly through networking, I love creating events as you never know who’s life might change just by meeting the right person. and you don’t meet that person by sitting at home and hoping someone comes and gets you!
In reality like my dad first taught me; There are two kinds of people: Positive- and negative-minded. I sure attract mostly positive-minded ones, but sometimes two positives create neutral ..so need some spice in life too…take a risk with people 😀
When you do things with good karma in mind and stay OPEN-MINDED and CURIOUS, LOVE people. Doors open. Then all you need to do is GET EXCITED! BELIEVE that we you CAN DO IT and you DESERVE all the good things to come to you, when you treat people with kindness and respect. I think in our society nowadays people are not always WILLING to work their socks off! When experiencing hardships we often state “At least I learned..”, “We would’ve not met otherwise” or ” Next time I do it better”..My favorite words are “YES”, “I CAN”, “CAN YOU HELP ME TO..”TEAM WORK” is essential, connecting is a pleasure 😀
Negative people, however, don’t even recognise many opportunities because they usually HATE surprises and avoid unexpected , unknown situations.They want to stay in control or stay too busy wondering whats wrong with this and that.. Always calculating the MOUNTAIN of risks involved. They are set in their ways and even the prospects of doing something new feels DAUNTING! Because they might end up FAILING and feeling EMBARRASED. When things go pearshaped they often say ” I knew it was going to fail” or “you should’ve listened to me”, ” I never wanted to be here/ do this”: “BUT”, “I CAN’T” ” I DONT WANT TO and “NO” are the most frequently used words. Negative individuals do not like to show their weaknesses and therefore connecting with others becomes harder, teamwork suffers and as we all know results seem pleak and unsatisfying.
Luckily everyone has the power to learn to be more productive. You can harness positive and creative thought processes i.e.: by going to mindmapping courses, spending time with positive-minded individuals.. By being helpful to others..KARMA. Its just that if you stay always on fence and negative, noone wants to deal with selfmutilating partypoopers and bullies: you know yourself if you are this type of person, so PLEASE take a grip of yourself and start respecting yourself and others; subsequently life becomes easier, more beautiful for you too!! PEACE OUT ❤